问世间情为何物？直教人生死相随。这名句，出自琼瑶的笔下，是多么的动听与感人肺腑。
有人爱、有人疼、有人宠是幸福的。但偏偏有人甘愿选择放弃这种被爱的权利，而去追寻一个梦幻般的爱情，即使那是多么的遥不可及？
敢爱、敢恨、勇于追求自己所渴望的爱情是一件多么勇敢的事。但，成功率是多少呢？真正因此而开花结果的爱情又有多少呢？身边不乏朋友在爱情的道路上触礁，就是因为自己的执著与坚持，最终跌的最痛、伤得最重的还是自己。
一对情侣结了婚，若干年后，感情难免的会慢慢转淡，话题也就越来越少。到头来，是什么维系着他们的感情呢？孩子？抑或是责任感？还是只为了兑现共结连理前所许下的海誓山盟？
我不禁怀疑：结婚的真正目的是什么？为了传种接代？还是只为了履行做人的责任？
又有多少对白头偕老的夫妻，由始至终都是那么的恩恩爱爱？由始至终都是那么的不分彼此、毫无条件的为自己的另一半付出，直到永远、永远？
既然结婚是人生中必经的过程，那选择一个爱自己比较多的人为终生伴侣会比选择一个自己爱他更多的人来得幸福吧？真的是这样吗？
这世上真的有天长地久的爱情吗？“我爱你到海枯石烂”这样的经典爱情语言，也许就只在电视剧里才可以真正被体验到吧？
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7 comments:
问世间情为何物,不是琼瑶写的吧,她只是引用.
人就是犯践哦,明知会跌到,还是踩下去.
这种事情,到时就知道如何面对,我妈说的.:-P
天长地久指男女爱情永远存在。因此，天长地久并不代表一定会永远都在一起才算得上是天长地久。原因是，一段爱情也会受到外界的影响，造成许多真心相爱的男女被迫分开，但他们的心永远都忘不了对方。
例如《铁坦尼号》的男主角，因为沉船而死亡，造成有情人从此阴阳相隔。但，女主角一直到年老仍深爱着对方。现今社会，难道没这些例子吗？难道，我们就因为他们无法长相厮守，就断言他们的真爱，不是天长地久吗? 所以，我们只需他们的心是否永远爱对方来论证即可。
相爱容易相处难是因为情侣之间的爱情并不真，真正的爱情是经得起时间的考验的。天长地久不只是形式上，也是心灵上的。真正的爱情一定是天长地久的，也不是只在乎曾经拥有，更不只是私情而是大爱啊！
idol,现今社会里有多少像《铁达尼号》般天长地久的爱情呢？不时听说“不在乎天长地久，只在乎曾经拥有”吧？……“又有多少人能无私的付出他们的爱呢？
I know 天长地久 is never easy but if you love him/her truely, you should believe there is, as only like that you will do your best to make it become real :)
所谓的“真”是不容虚假心存在的，讲的是心。若两人能真心相爱，天长地久有何不能？若视感觉只是短暂，视白头偕老是个习惯，那是极为可惜的！而短暂的感觉绝对不是真情，那只是一时的“情不自禁“冲昏了头脑。
哈哈，别担心了，你绝对会遇到一位的。学业为重！
yueh wei...don scare me..
Hey 我亲爱的屋友
爱听不见，看不到， 我无法衡量它的寿命
但我明了无条件的爱，无私的爱都是我们大家都追求的
有时候不如放心地去爱与被爱
the only truth in this world is CHANGE,things are subject to changes,when the conditions arise, they change,isn't it?
For eg, The weather change, the plan of going to a picnic have to be cancelled of substitute by other plan. In a relationship, we cant say for sure our other half will love us forever, and same to us,can we change? In reality, we change in this forever changing world, the environment change, the lifestyle change as we walk along this journey of life,it's the commitment and effort that we put in investing the relationship that give "fuel" for it to runs longer:) isn't it?
我还是喜欢用“疼爱" than "爱”，经验告诉我，疼爱比较unconditional,and we do it for others, and it feels good,the best thing is that we dun get disappointed，it's simply UNCONDITIONAL,and no expectations attached:)
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